About You

This helps us tailor the app to how your brain works. You can change this anytime.

I identify as
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Autistic
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ADHD
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AuDHD
Both
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Neurotypical
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HSP
Highly Sensitive
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Not Sure
Still figuring it out
How Are You Right Now?
No right or wrong answers. Just notice.
Energy LevelFully charged β†’ Running on empty
Sensory LoadCalm β†’ Overloaded
Social BandwidthWant connection ↔ Need space
Body StatePick any that apply
Internal WeatherOverall atmosphere
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The Pause Button

When things are getting heated or overwhelming, either partner can request a pause. This is protection for the relationship β€” not rejection.

How It Works

1. You tap the button
2. Your partner is notified (gently)
3. You both get a short grounding exercise
4. After your chosen time, you reconnect with a structured restart

Send a Topic Preview
Give your partner a heads-up about something you'd like to discuss. No ambush conversations.
Recent Topics
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No topics yet

Send a topic preview when you want to discuss something with your partner.

Assigned by Your Therapist
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No homework yet

Your therapist will assign exercises after your sessions.

Exercise Library
Learn About Your Relationship
Your Couples
Select a couple to assign an exercise.
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Add a New Couple
Enter both partners' names and emails. They'll each get a welcome email with a link to log in.